grinding of gears

formless and void

Mel Hynes
16 June 1976
The writing half of the team behind the webcomic Two Lumps (with flemco). I also write short fiction in both horror and humor. I guess I like seeing both sides of everything. ;)

"Massive delusions? Very probably... I am now surrounded by hypocrites, liars, drunks, clowns, fools, sycophants and the desperate... Stricken with grief, I have no choice but to turn to lethal toxins."

Baron and Wagele - Enneagram Made Easy

The Romantic (the Four)
Romantics have sensitive feelings and are warm and perceptive.

How to Get Along with Me

  • Give me plenty of compliments. They mean a lot to me.
  • Be a supportive friend or partner. Help me to learn to love and value myself.
  • Respect me for my special gifts of intuition and vision.
  • Though I don't always want to be cheered up when I'm feeling melancholy, I sometimes like to have someone lighten me up a little.
  • Don't tell me I'm too sensitive or that I'm overreacting!

What I Like About Being a Four

  • my ability to find meaning in life and to experience feeling at a deep level
  • my ability to establish warm connections with people
  • admiring what is noble, truthful, and beautiful in life
  • my creativity, intuition, and sense of humor
  • being unique and being seen as unique by others
  • having aesthetic sensibilities
  • being able to easily pick up the feelings of people around me

What's Hard About Being a Four

  • experiencing dark moods of emptiness and despair
  • feelings of self-hatred and shame; believing I don't deserve to be loved
  • feeling guilty when I disappoint people
  • feeling hurt or attacked when someone misundertands me
  • expecting too much from myself and life
  • fearing being abandoned
  • obsessing over resentments
  • longing for what I don't have

The WeatherPixie

Dislikes:9: bell peppers, bigotry, deliberate ignorance, designer pet breeds, hatred, intentional mangling of language, puerile insults, snotty medical professionals, stereotypes